Relationships can be beautiful and meaningful. They can also be confusing, frustrating, and simply exhausting. Maybe you're stuck in the same argument on repeat. Maybe things feel distant, tense, or just… off. You might be wondering: Are we okay? Can we find our way back to each other? Is this what relationships are supposed to feel like?
In couples therapy, we slow things down and take a look at the patterns between you and also the stuff each of you brings in. Because let’s be real, even the strongest couples get tangled when old wounds, nervous system freakouts, and unspoken expectations enter the chat. (And they always do. Hello assumptions and miscommunication). My approach is grounded in neuroscience, attachment, and how our brains and bodies try to protect us -often in ways that backfire in relationships. This isn’t about blame or keeping score. It’s about understanding the dynamic and teaming up to shift it. Reality is that relationships take work. But the payoff? Real connection, real safety, real joy. Worth every step.
Most people come into therapy focused on the argument, the shutdown, the resentment, or the distance. But usually, those are just symptoms. I'm here for true transformation, not just symptom management.
✔️ I help you slow the moment down enough to actually see what is happening in real time. We make the pattern visible so it stops running the relationship.
✔️ My work is structured, active, and insight-oriented. I bring clarity to moments that usually feel chaotic, emotionally loaded, or impossible to untangle. We are not only talking about the conflict after it happened. We are learning how to recognize the cycle while it is happening. Yes, in session.
✔️ We look at more than communication. I know you may not want to hear it, but conflicts are not just about the present moment. They are about what the present moment touches inside of you. Yes, this includes talking about the past.
✔️ I work with both accountability and compassion. I will help you understand your partner more clearly. And I will also help you understand yourself more honestly.